Advice and support
Keepsakes and ways to remember someone
A keepsake can be something you wear, keep at home or share with family. You do not need to choose one straight away, and you may decide that photographs or familiar belongings are enough.
Choosing an urn or container
Our direct cremation includes the return of ashes in a suitable container. If you would prefer a different urn, consider where it will be kept and whether the ashes will later be buried or scattered. Check the size and suitability with the supplier, or speak with us about the possibilities.
Sharing ashes between keepsakes
Some families choose to divide a small amount of ashes between keepsakes, while keeping, burying or scattering the remainder. Discuss this with those involved before choosing anything. A specialist supplier can explain how much ash an item needs and how it should be provided.
Memorial jewellery
There are specialist companies that make jewellery incorporating ashes, including glass pieces. Others make engraved jewellery or items based on a fingerprint. Products, materials and costs vary; check the maker’s requirements and arrangements before ordering. These are possibilities to explore, rather than a list of products supplied by SDC.
Fingerprints, handprints and anything needed beforehand
Please speak to SDC before cremation takes place if you are considering a keepsake that needs a fingerprint, handprint, lock of hair or any other action beforehand. We can explain what may be possible in the circumstances. Do not assume that an impression has been taken or can be obtained later.
Other personal ideas
A memory box, favourite photograph, handwritten note or piece of clothing can be a keepsake too. You might ask an artist to create something personal, checking their availability, costs and timescales directly. There is no need to buy something to remember a person well.
Taking time to decide
We can talk through the possibilities with you. Confirm any product availability and additional cost before making plans. For ideas about a gathering, planting or another tribute, see remembering someone after a direct cremation.
Talk to us about a keepsake
If an idea needs anything arranged before cremation, please let us know early so that we can explain what is possible.
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